Does Your Fiance’s Family’s Attitude Towards You Affect Your Decision To Marry someone?
You must agree with me that this one is sensitive.
Let’s be serious right now, if your “future in-laws” despises you completely, would you go ahead and marry your dream guy?
I don’t know about you guys but the thought of it is scary. So you have found the right person, your Mr, Miss perfect.
You guys have known each other for long and have been planning to tie the knot and all that.
You finally take him/her home and it’s obvious that your family is not happy with the person you bring home.
Reason being anything at all or probably there’s no reason at all.
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Sister, brother would you go ahead with that marriage?
They say when you get married to someone, you are actually getting married to the entire family.
Would you marry into this family or is their bad attitude towards you enough to end a beautiful relationship.
Take your time and think about it and let’s hear what u think in the comment section below.
It’s an interesting topic already, let’s make it exciting too!
Adia Runo
You shake this table o!
This matter is really sensitive o.
Hmmm!
I won’t proceed to marry my dream guy if his family despises me until we can clarify the reasons behind the family’s contention.
If after good deliberations to make them understand they still insist against the marriage, I don’t think I’ll continue. Not because I don’t love the guy o, but I can’t sign up for a marriage full of trouble!
God helping sha e nor go be like that!
Sylvia Atakpor
No one should sign up for a marriage full of trouble oh my dear. I agree with you Runo.
Thanks for sharing with us dear. ❤❤
Yvonne
Exactly, you don’t just marry someone. You marry the whole family. Honestly I would love to say I can because of the love we share but the guy also has an obligation to his family and if he cuts off from them, that will give them reasons to hate you more. There’s no way you can stay away from them cuz there will be children, festivities and all that. So for me I’ll find a way to fix it and be totally sure there’s nothing I can do about it. If I can’t then I don’t think I can go through with it
Sylvia Atakpor
Babe I get u oh.. U can’t just avoid mingling with your in-laws at one point or another so what will you do when that happens?
Finding a way to fix it is a good move, just so you don’t loose a good relationship without an effort.
Thanks dearie for sharing ❤❤
Ogonegbu Festus Benchuks
Although it’s a very difficult situation and probably not easy to handle. If your father in-law doesn’t like you for some sort, but isn’t stopping your marriage well it’s OK to continue.
When you get married it’s of my opinion that the partners are family. Extended family remains external and should contribute little or nothing in your marriage.
Sylvia Atakpor
Festus I like you jareh.. Extended family remains external oh. But well,like Yvonne said, what do you do when something brings everyone together, and you can’t say you would avoid every gathering and won’t let your children meet their mother’s family.
Oh well, if it’s something you can pull off, why not 😁
Thanks for sharing ❤❤